Happy Endings and The Erotic Massage…

Giving someone a massage has to be on the top of most people’s list of favorite things to get from their partner. Most of us know from experience how wonderful a full body massage feels when done by a professional masseuse. We remember what that experience was like, and yearn for that experience again.

You are in luck dear reader, in this blog I am going to take you step by step through giving the best massage experience to your partner. One that when they look at you, they will have a grin from ear to ear, and will speak of it in hushed respectful tones. When you are through with them, they will be putty in your hands. Go through these steps and follow these directions and you will give them an experience they will talk about for a long long time. 

Step One.  Set the mood. Dim the lights to just barely above visible. You can light a candle but make it unscented. The point here is to relax your lover, no sharp scents or harsh lights.

 Put on relaxing music or environmental sounds. A stream or ocean waves, you can also try rain (no thunder) or chimes, or flute music. Do not use jazz, or any music with lyrics. Try and make the music as unfamiliar as you can. It will be helpful to make the room as warm as is comfortable. Use a space heater to raise the temperature about ten to 15 degrees.  

Step Two.   Have a massage table just under YOUR waist height. Lightly padded (not too soft) and cover it in a nice cotton sheet out of the dryer. It should be warm, almost hot to the touch. Have your partner undress and sip a nice warm cup of tea while relaxing in a warmed cotton robe.

 If you have no access to the massage table, prepare a pallet on the floor with cushions you have covered in warm terry cloth towels from the dryer. 

Step Three. Set up a tray of warm wet washcloths (the hotter the better without scalding anyone). You will want plenty of washcloths and towels for cleanup, and to keep everyone's modesty. 

After ten or fifteen minutes of relaxing in a comfortable chair sipping their warm beverage, your subject should be ready and in the right frame of mind for a massage. Bring them into the room and direct them to lie face down on the table. Place a nice warm comforter over the top of them and expose the neck and shoulders. 

Step Four:   Use a nice lightly scented massage oil heated by warm water or by rubbing it in your hands.  Keeping your hands on either side of their spine begin by gently massaging their neck and muscles of their upper back all the way down to their lower spine just above the buttocks. Use your fingers to knead their back and shoulder muscles squeezing the muscles with your fingers and thumbs. Be gentle, and follow their noises. If they wince, be more gentle until you have the correct pressure. If you speak, do it in whispers close to their ear, and eat an Altoid or cinnamon to freshen your breath. For the best results make sure to use AMPLE massage oil.  

Step Five: Replace the blanket or comforter, and move to the right leg. Expose the leg to the upper thigh and begin massaging the leg from the ankle to the thigh. Slow long strokes using plenty of warm oil to knead into the muscles. Use your left hand, place it behind the knee, and raise the lower leg to stretch the ligaments of the knee. Work the muscles of the right leg and then the left in this manner. Go as high up the leg as your both are comfortable, the point of this massage is to relax the other person NOT make them nervous. 

Step Six  Is my favorite part of getting a massage so pay close attention. It is called effleurage, and it is amazing. Take long smooth strokes up and down the leg stretching the skin gently. Rub each leg this way only exposing the leg you are working on. Do this same technique to the back and arms, each only exposed while you are massaging that part. 

Step Seven: Do the arms in a very similar fashion as you did the Legs. Start by massaging oil into your hands and rub their palms, fingers and the muscles of their hands then up the forearm, to upper arm and shoulder. Again only expose the area you are working on, and maintain the heat in the room so no one gets chilled. Heat is very important in relaxing muscles. 

Step Eight: The neck and scalp use your fingers to massage the scalp from the forehead to the base of the skull. Slide your fingers down the neck on both sides and massage oil into the muscles of the neck.

Step Nine: The happy ending… Have your partner lie on their back and repeat the same steps on the front muscles as you did on the back.  Make sure you use the massage oil very liberally. Lubrication is very important in this step. 

Once you have completed the front massage start from the knee and rub gently up toward the groin area, close to, but not touching the genitals. 

Rub the crease of the thigh, the waist, and above the pubic bone slowly and carefully. Add warm oil to the area, and use downward strokes to rub the penis and gently cup and massage the balls. Massage oil into the penis and rub it gently between your hands until it stiffens and becomes erect. 

Alternate hands and stroke the penis from the head to the base with a very relaxed grip and at a very slow speed. As he gets more excited he will offer directions as to speed and grip pressure. Have a warm wet cloth ready at climax for cleanup, and a hot shower prepared. 

If you are massaging a woman it is mostly the same. Rub slow relaxed strokes from the knee to the pelvis. Spread the legs a few inches and rub on both sides of the vagina. Spread the lips of the vagina and lightly rub the clitoris at the upper part of the vagina, or use the tip of a vibrator on a low setting.

Slowly build to orgasm by alternating vibrations, and massage, and watch the body movements. She will either back away from, or move into your massage. Listen to patterns of breathing and verbal commands. Tease, and continue to alternate your techniques until climax.

We truly hope this helps give some new and fun ideas to your lovemaking. 

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